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| My final thoughts It seems that few people here feel that I deserve to be let know why there was a split, and because of this my last thread has been locked and many posts have been deleted for whatever reason.
I'd just like to wish you all the best with BBRTS, but I can no longer remain a member, not because of what I've found out, but because of what is being hidden from me. I can't remain in a team that is doing it's best to keep information from me....
This is a sad day for me, I've been crunching for a long time and most of that time was as part of BBRTS.
Goodbye, Alnero -- Question: How many roads must a man walk down? Answer: 42 | |
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| Re: My final thoughts Hank....just a suggestion, since this seems to come up every now and then...... collect the old linkage (someone from the other side has, but I'd suggest someone here do it) and post it all in a FAQ. That way when the next member who's been away for too long asks, they can just be pointed to the tlinks and read about everything on their own. It would save the "brief summaries" (which seem to always include jabs) that tend to put people off. -- Intel Quad Core QX6700 @3500Mhz/Asus P5N32-E SLI/4x 1024Mb Corsair/Seagate 750.10/PNY 7800GTs SLI/Silverstone 850W/Custom water cooler | |
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| Re: My final thoughts I disagree.
This split took place almost 2 years ago, come June. Most all members here are aware of what transpired, and if they are not then it is most likely not a big deal to them.
Posting an FAQ only lends itself to keeping this alive, and to be honest, it needs to just go away. This site here doesn't need to keep publicizing what took place here that long ago.
Besides, people are not popping up here and asking that frequently "what happened", and if they do, they are almost assuredly being notified about it from those who are members at the other site who still frequent here. And if not, it begs the question how one may inquire "what happened", only to find themselves over at the other site so quickly.
Then again just my .02 cents | |
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| Re: My final thoughts said by mig :I disagree. As do I, much better to leave things as they are.
The random locked threads and deleted posts look so much better. | |
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| Re: My final thoughts said by MarkH :said by mig :I disagree. As do I, much better to leave things as they are. The random locked threads and deleted posts look so much better. One thing I have noticed is that whenever a thread is locked or deleted in this forum it usually involves a post from a member who claims they have left this site, but somehow just manages to keep on hanging around.
Wonder if that might have something to do with it? | |
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| Re: My final thoughts said by mig :said by MarkH :said by mig :I disagree. As do I, much better to leave things as they are. The random locked threads and deleted posts look so much better. One thing I have noticed is that whenever a thread is locked or deleted in this forum it usually involves a post from a member who claims they have left this site, but somehow just manages to keep on hanging around. Wonder if that might have something to do with it? Possibly so, possibly not. Maybe they are people who left with the team and still have other interest here on some of the other forums, or members who only post very occasionally.
The possibilities are like rumors, they never end. | |
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| Re: My final thoughts said by MarkH :Possibly so, possibly not. Maybe they are people who left with the team and still have other interest here on some of the other forums, or members who only post very occasionally. The possibilities are like rumors, they never end. Possibly so.
Showing up on the site is one thing. Showing up in a DC forum one vows that they have left behind is another.
Would be interesting to see the # of locked or deleted threads in all these other forums here that former team members post in as compared to this forum. | |
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| Re: My final thoughts said by mig :Possibly so. Showing up on the site is one thing. Showing up in a DC forum one vows that they have left behind is another. Would be interesting to see the # of locked or deleted threads in all these other forums here that former team members post in as compared to this forum. Putting aside locked and deleted posts just for now, we all know that there are members who read the forums here, and the forums elsewhere. When something of interest is posted in one place, it is going to be noted by at least one person and word passed on about it.
That automatically leads to a situation that members or ex members who haven't bothered to read or post in the forum are going to come visit and see. If when they arrive they find something they don't agree with, they are likely going to post on one or both sets of forums how they see things and present their opinion. A simple case of human habits and the nature of the internet at work. | |
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| Re: My final thoughts said by MarkH : Putting aside locked and deleted posts just for now, we all know that there are members who read the forums here, and the forums elsewhere. When something of interest is posted in one place, it is going to be noted by at least one person and word passed on about it. Actually, I wasn't the one who brought up locked or deleted posts. You were.
said by MarkH :As do I, much better to leave things as they are. The random locked threads and deleted posts look so much better. Though I assume your comment was made in sarcasm?
said by MarkH :That automatically leads to a situation that members or ex members who haven't bothered to read or post in the forum are going to come visit and see. If when they arrive they find something they don't agree with, they are likely going to post on one or both sets of forums how they see things and present their opinion. A simple case of human habits and the nature of the internet at work. In any event I guess reasons, right or wrong, can be made to further ones beliefs. | |
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| Re: My final thoughts Yes it was made as a sarcastic comment, guilty as charged.
Indeed, peoples beliefs are ultimately what these topics are invariably about.
I personally believe that locked and deleted posts and threads are often indicative of something being hidden when there are so many of them.
I much prefer that things (however embarrassing they may be) are left for all to see, providing of course they aren't personal attacks. Debate is a good thing in my opinion, and part of debate is disagreements, you can either try and erase all evidence of the disagreement, or face up to it and deal with it. At least when it is dealt with, you don't have it resurfacing time and again. | |
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| Re: My final thoughts said by MarkH :Yes it was made as a sarcastic comment, guilty as charged. Indeed, peoples beliefs are ultimately what these topics are invariably about. I personally believe that locked and deleted posts and threads are often indicative of something being hidden when there are so many of them. I much prefer that things (however embarrassing they may be) are left for all to see, providing of course they aren't personal attacks. Debate is a good thing in my opinion, and part of debate is disagreements, you can either try and erase all evidence of the disagreement, or face up to it and deal with it. At least when it is dealt with, you don't have it resurfacing time and again. I agree with you to a point.
The problem as I see it with most of the locked and deleted posts in this forum are that most are locked or deleted due to former members taking umbrage with comments that they disagree with. Most members here already know the other site members disagree, after all, that was one of the main reasons they left. They disagreed with site management.
How long do we have to keep reading here that they disagree? Or that they are right and we are wrong?
They have their own home now and have had for almost 2 years. I'm not going to rehash anything from the past. It serves no purpose. Just as it serves no purpose to comment on how threads here get deleted or locked.
Remember you all have your own site and your own forums where you pride yourselves in stating that you don't lock or delete threads. Since locked and deleted threads seem worrisome to some of your members, they probably should refrain from visiting a site that moderates to one that doesn't. | |
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| Re: My final thoughts said by mig :Since locked and deleted threads seem worrisome to some of your members, they probably should refrain from visiting a site that moderates to one that doesn't. Ah yes, of course, we should stay away as was suggested by others in the past. Leave you be to get on with your forums and we stick with ours etc.
What then when things are posted that are blatantly untrue and sometimes offensive? Are they best ignored by us and left undefended?
You are wanting us to leave you all alone, that I can understand, but that is never going to happen as long as questions are asked about the two teams. Wishing a problem away doesn't make it vanish forever. Especially when there are accusations made against the people you wish would leave you alone.
Yes, people come and make a post here after being away for a long period of time, but that is more due to the fact that nobody here will actually give a full and proper answer when the wrong questions are asked. | |
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| Re: My final thoughts said by MarkH :Ah yes, of course, we should stay away as was suggested by others in the past. Leave you be to get on with your forums and we stick with ours etc. What then when things are posted that are blatantly untrue and sometimes offensive? Are they best ignored by us and left undefended? You are wanting us to leave you all alone, that I can understand, but that is never going to happen as long as questions are asked about the two teams. Wishing a problem away doesn't make it vanish forever. Especially when there are accusations made against the people you wish would leave you alone. Yes, people come and make a post here after being away for a long period of time, but that is more due to the fact that nobody here will actually give a full and proper answer when the wrong questions are asked. Actually I never stated that I want you or your team members to leave us alone. I simply stated that since moderation bothers your team so much that your team might want to refrain from visiting a site that moderates.
As far as posting things "that are blatantly untrue and sometimes offensive", could you elaborate on what posts these were or did you take screenshots of it so you could have evidence of this happening?
I'm not disputing that you say it happens, I would just like to see these posts as I visit here daily and haven't seen these type of posts, though it is possible that I may have missed them.
I find that when one thinks posts are not proper and they think may be deleted that they take a screenshot of it just to have as a reference.
I did this a while back on a particular individual who I had reason to suspect was causing a minor inconvience by being extremely hateful with vitriolic comments. You wouldn't believe the trails that were left by this individual.
Seriously though, I'd like to see these posts you speak of, not that I'm in position here to do anything about them.
I really wouldn't call 2-3 people a year that post a "what happened" due to their long inactivity as a valid reason to create an FAQ.
Remember, when the split happened, an e-mail was sent by a member from your site now to all Team Starfire members explaining the split. If former members were concerned thay had ample opportunity to seek out that individual.
In fact I still have that e-mail. | |
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| Re: My final thoughts So, respecting your first wish of not wanting to rehash the past, I am not going to link to threads elsewhere, because firstly, my post would be moderated for linking to the only place that I could show the older stuff (yes, we know mentioning our site by name is offensive to some here), and secondly, because I do actually believe that ultimately, things need to be allowed to rest, but that doesn't mean I think things should be ignored, hence my bothering to post. I'm of the opinion that you know where to look, both here and elsewhere if you were actually concerned about the truth of the whole situation, but I know that you have your own beliefs about the situation and therefore we are in a situation that the best outcome would be an agreement to disagree and leave everything out in the open for others to see and then make up their own minds.
Recent stuff, well, you could ask B52GUNR why he felt the need to be inflammatory in the enquiry thread that ended up locked recently, that thread is a milder example of the symptoms of the whole problem. It was enough to get the attention of the people you don't like posting here now though, so GUNR gets a thumbs up for attracting yet more attention to the problem(s). I could also suggest you ask your moderators why they have made some of the decisions they did and ask them what they said to others in IM's too, but I know that questioning your mods is an easy way to a warning or suspension, so you may be better off not doing that.
As for the email being sent out, yes, I do remember the team founder list being used. Just one question though, how do you know that all former members have actually even seen that mail? It is more than likely that there are people who have never seen or read that mail due to expired email accounts etc, and if they are returning to DC after a long absence, they are invariably going to be curious about what happened.
Lets face it, there have been things said and done by both sides that have been upsetting to the other. I would just like to see enquiries handled in a mature meaningful manner rather than it becoming an issue over and over due to a few of your posters who know they can be venomous and get away with it because as long as it's not again bbr/dslr or it's members, it's acceptable. | |
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| said by Alnero :It seems that few people here feel that I deserve to be let know why there was a split, and because of this my last thread has been locked and many posts have been deleted for whatever reason. I'd just like to wish you all the best with BBRTS, but I can no longer remain a member, not because of what I've found out, but because of what is being hidden from me. I can't remain in a team that is doing it's best to keep information from me.... This is a sad day for me, I've been crunching for a long time and most of that time was as part of BBRTS. Goodbye, Alnero Sorry to see you go but before I can say that I will tell you, that you asked a question and it was answered and the fact that the thread was locked had nothing to do with your question, but more of the trolls that like to show up and try to cause trouble.
You are withing to leave then Fine that is your choice, but do not feel that its due to anyone hiding anything, more to the point its more open now and little is taking place behind the scenes. As this thread shows we can agree and disagree and keep our perspective and keep crunching.
Thats what its all about anyway.
Best of Luck to you
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|  |  |   BBR_InsUW AA or NF thats my Game Premium,Mod join:2000-04-22 La Mesa, CA clubs: | I wont lock this and ask that everyone remember that the issues of the past are the past and till we can write a History book we can just polietly explain that there was a rift and some left and that is the way of the world. | |
|   SkellBasher Yes Sorto, I'll take my Prozac
join:2000-10-22 North Tonawanda, NY | It is somewhat sad to see that such animosity still remains on both sides after so much time. | |
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join:2000-10-22 North Tonawanda, NY | Re: My final thoughts HFB, I would like to know what comments that you consider to be 'garbage and provocative'. I don't see that at all. | |
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| Re: My final thoughts said by SkellBasher :HFB, I would like to know what comments that you consider to be 'garbage and provocative'. I don't see that at all. SkellBasher you wont see them as they were removed.
And yes its sad that some cant let it go and this applies to both, and Folks its really time to let it go. | |
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| I don't know what "picture" you're referring to, Hank. And from the sound of this thread so far, it's probably better not to know! 
The charge of "what is being hidden" laid against this team is rather disheartening to hear, at best. Nothing I know of, and no one - this team AND those who left, included - is anywhere near perfect, but I just want to point out that my own main issue when the Big Break occurred was the complete lack of openness about what was going on. This team was taken in a certain direction by a handful of people, with no polling of members or even a simple question or heads-up. I brought that concern up early on, and to be honest, I could have taken my crunching elsewhere had things been handled differently or even a simple apology offered. It was specifically the hidden agenda and lack of communication that turned me off.
I bring this up not to open old wounds or to fan any flames. I simply think it is very important that this team and forum operate democratically, by the will of its members. Open discussion (and change, if necessary) should ideally happen all the time here. | |
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| Re: My final thoughts said by jons : I simply think it is very important that this team and forum operate democratically, by the will of its members. Open discussion (and change, if necessary) should ideally happen all the time here. I couldn't agree more with this statement and your comment in whole.
I also thank the powers that be for unlocking this thread. | |
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| Jons the PIC was a pic about beating a dead horse. Nothing more.
I can say that over the last year of so the deleted posts or locked threads are very few and usually the deleted one are clearly outside the forum guidelines or just plain trolls or flames.
I seldom have to mod anything in here and that is the way it should be and I prefer to just crunch away in peace and live in the present and not in the past.
If the question comes up about what happened its just this easy just politely explain that "there was a rift and some left and that is the way of the world" -- [BBR]Clan Leader
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1 edit | Re: My final thoughts said by BBR_InsUW :If the question comes up about what happened its just this easy just politely explain that "there was a rift and some left and that is the way of the world" But shouldn't people have the right to ask questions about it if they want to know more details? If someone would like to know more about why things ended up as they did, should they not be allowed to ask? We're pretty much all adults here, a civil conversation should be well within our capabilities.
Restricting the mention of TSWB, or the team split to be "it happened" is almost revisionist history. It's akin to a student asking what started WWI, and being told "someone got shot, but the allies won, so let it go".
Does it bring up some old grudges some people still have? It's obvious that it does. However, it is my opinion that any time it comes up, the folks who moderate this forum start to over-moderate it to death in order to restrict the perspective of events.
No, I don't personally want to rehash the events. It took me a couple days back then to read through all the public threads here to figure out what was going on myself. Anyone should be entitled to ask questions about those events, as painful as it may be for some to rehash them, and not bu subject to piecing through threads of edits and half deleted posts.
You may respond with 'we'll run our forum like we want', and that's fine. At least let these competing opinions be seen so readers can make their own, informed decisions. | |
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| Re: My final thoughts said by SkellBasher :said by BBR_InsUW :If the question comes up about what happened its just this easy just politely explain that "there was a rift and some left and that is the way of the world" But shouldn't people have the right to ask questions about it if they want to know more details? If someone would like to know more about why things ended up as they did, should they not be allowed to ask? We're pretty much all adults here, a civil conversation should be well within our capabilities. Restricting the mention of TSWB, or the team split to be "it happened" is almost revisionist history. It's akin to a student asking what started WWI, and being told "someone got shot, but the allies won, so let it go". Does it bring up some old grudges some people still have? It's obvious that it does. However, it is my opinion that any time it comes up, the folks who moderate this forum start to over-moderate it to death in order to restrict the perspective of events. No, I don't personally want to rehash the events. It took me a couple days back then to read through all the public threads here to figure out what was going on myself. Anyone should be entitled to ask questions about those events, as painful as it may be for some to rehash them, and not bu subject to piecing through threads of edits and half deleted posts. You may respond with 'we'll run our forum like we want', and that's fine. At least let these competing opinions be seen so readers can make their own, informed decisions. Skellbasher yes you can ask and some will be glad to give you answers, and that is where the problem starts.
What happens is that you get 2 or 3 or 4 points of view on what happened and since a very large portion did not take place in this forum there are Holes in the history.
Anytime you have holes in history we all get a free ride to make up what we want to fill in the holes. Its human nature to want to know every little piece of the puzzle and when we cant, we speculate and guess about what is missing. There is where the problems start and why its a tough issue.
Are there grudges, I know there are, I don't go to the other team site and post or read so I have no clue as to what they say, but every time a thread shows up here we see a large increase in anon posts and we see specific types of posts with an effort to open up issues and make specific comments.
Now I personally don't have an issue with polite and civil discussion, I even like to have some more serious discussions. But not everyone has the ability to keep it civil and usually it gets out of hand very fast.
So you ask a simple question of what happened and the next thing you know the "shit hit the fan" with the thread and you see lots of modding and deleted posts. And that starts the whole over-modding and we are trying to hide something.
I do understand what is going on and I have tried my best to be fair and I am sure the others that MOD in this forum do also.
So its a fine line that we are trying to balance on, the ability to have reasonable discussions without having to resort to excessive moderation.
There is no easy answer but I do not hear of complaints that members from here are posting in other place and causing trouble.
So yes I prefer to answer that there was a rift and some left the team, its not the best but its by far the safest.
Lastly it is truly OUR forum to run as we see fit and as long as you remember that the word OUR means the entire StarFire/Einstein Team.
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| Re: My final thoughts said by BBR_InsUW :Skellbasher yes you can ask and some will be glad to give you answers, and that is where the problem starts. What happens is that you get 2 or 3 or 4 points of view on what happened and since a very large portion did not take place in this forum there are Holes in the history. Anytime you have holes in history we all get a free ride to make up what we want to fill in the holes. Its human nature to want to know every little piece of the puzzle and when we cant, we speculate and guess about what is missing. There is where the problems start and why its a tough issue. Are there grudges, I know there are, I don't go to the other team site and post or read so I have no clue as to what they say, but every time a thread shows up here we see a large increase in anon posts and we see specific types of posts with an effort to open up issues and make specific comments. Now I personally don't have an issue with polite and civil discussion, I even like to have some more serious discussions. But not everyone has the ability to keep it civil and usually it gets out of hand very fast. So you ask a simple question of what happened and the next thing you know the "shit hit the fan" with the thread and you see lots of modding and deleted posts. And that starts the whole over-modding and we are trying to hide something. I do understand what is going on and I have tried my best to be fair and I am sure the others that MOD in this forum do also. So its a fine line that we are trying to balance on, the ability to have reasonable discussions without having to resort to excessive moderation. There is no easy answer but I do not hear of complaints that members from here are posting in other place and causing trouble. So yes I prefer to answer that there was a rift and some left the team, its not the best but its by far the safest. Lastly it is truly OUR forum to run as we see fit and as long as you remember that the word OUR means the entire StarFire/Einstein Team. Edward Mr. Moderator(s):
It still doesn't add up.
Let us take a quick look at a pair of hypothetical scenarios.
Assume, for a second, you're right and they were all "troll" posts. Does this forum need a nanny to protect everyone from the evil trolls?
Back before the split, we knew how to deal with trolls without moderator intervention (or with mods posting publicly and helping us dispatch the few trolls who did wander in). We could read a post and decide for ourselves what was troll and what wasn't, and we handled the trolls by ourselves without the need for a nanny to step in.
Now lets assume that they all weren't trolls. Or go a step further and say that most of them weren't trolls. Lets say that a few of those posts present a view that the mods don't want the members here exposed to. Well, then, you are hiding something from members, and all isn't as open and public as you might want the members here to believe.
Which scenario is correct? Well, members of this forum don't know. Sure, they can take your word for it, but it would all be much simpler if they could see and decide for themselves. That is open, public and democratic.
Now that brings up another question. Why aren't the members of this forum, who are intelligent, responsible members of this online community and fully capable of making their own decisions, not being allowed to see the posts and decide for themselves?
If the first scenario is correct and they were all troll post, by deleting them, mods have created the appearance that information is being hidden, and have deprived the responsible members of this forum the opportunity to make their own decision.
And if the second scenario is right, the appearance is the reality.
The only way to know for sure is to restore the original posts. Otherwise, there will always be the appearance of over-moderation in an attempt to hide something.
And if the mods decide to delete this, which I expect, you know where to find a copy. | |
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1 edit | Re: My final thoughts See the above post is a clear example of the problem, and of course its a conspiracy to prevent everyone from learning that ET was here and trying to phone home ....
Please since your prior post was deleted as a trolling post, now you know that by posting this and openly questioning/challenging it, to be deleted to prove your point and since you are clearly from the other team, your motives are clear. mod note removed incorrect assumption as to the poster being on other team
so what to do If I delete the thread you can say you win, If I leave it you say I was afraid to and that I am weak, or I can do neither and lock the thread with my only tool you cant get around now and I get to have the last word.
So my last word is I am sorry to the members of THIS team that we cant just go on and crunch in peace, no matter how hard many of us try to do that.
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