said by Veesofnaught:Thanks for the tips you guys. I know that I need to be vocal about it but you can understand my situation. My wife isn't on my side because it doesn't directly affect her and she'd rather be the "good Samaritan" and share, so it is an uphill battle on both fronts.
What happened to "I'm the king in my castle?"
There's a lot said here.
Sharing does not make you a good Samaritan (much less a Christian) because it does not address their needs. Only their wants. This is what your wife is doing.
That your wife isn't on your side is indicative of an out-of-order household.