Yep, you are having a service problem, not bandwidth throttling.
You will only experience packet deprioitization under very specific circumstances, and never for more then at most during a period when you yourself are using essentially all your bandwidth for extended periods of time. Even then simply dropping your usage down to no more then 70% of your max for an hour will clear you from that state.
What you describe isn't even close to that.--
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