Fuck you all. I hope I helped a few of you, or at least didn't make things worse. I'm glad I got to share a few of my thoughts but I have to admit I sometimes regret reading yours. My only other regret is engaging some of you nincompoops in some silly political or idiotological debate. My only disappointment is many times I lost the argument, even though I was 100% correct. My biggest enjoyment was participating in the Mafia games, but even though I've been /in on so many waiting lists, and I see other games going on without me I think you intentionally avoid me.
Anyway, I'm pissed at you all since I've been here for almost 10 years and never got a birthday thread in any of the forums I participated in; even though my birthday is in my username. So Fuck you all. You probably won't do nothing now that I'm dead anyway except post some annoying animated gif in some forsaken topic.
Does this go in the pre-death tab or the i'm dying tab?
Should I have requested a companion "Bucket List" forum as well?
The forum of the dead should have peoples buckets lists to enjoy life before they make it to the dead tab or the i'm dying tab. However, they can still write in the self-written obituary's tab that can then be moved by mod's to the dead tab.
The obit should automatically post after 3 months of inactivity.
I don't think it's unreasonable to believe that a perfectly healthy member might go several months between visits. I've seen it quite a few times over the years.
Amen to that. Some Outlook-calendar enabled smart fella named jeff4 came back and logged in on the 364'th day to renew his username, thus prohibiting me from acquiring it for at least another year. Sadly, I had my Outlook calendar ready as well, hoping he'd forget, and I was surprised to find the user name unavailable for another year, proving he still is alive.
Although he might visit once a year, that fucker is still alive and well, as far as I'm concerned.
I don't think I have ever posted here, just read stuff. So if I died and an obit was posted or was not posted, nobody would care. Also I find it ridiculous that if you went inactive for x amount of time then something would be automatically posted. I mean who hasn't been on a bboard or chat room, etc. and then just let it go...
near the top of the threads and I immediately become depressed and don't even wish to read what else is posted in this forum cause I don't wish to see that constantly.
and may I add
You stated that you noticed some members here add a deceased members name near their avatar but you feel they deserve more....Totally disagree....
I am one of those who added a RIP Dadkins next to mine to show my respect for the person but after a certain amount of time I removed it...If some members wish to keep a deceased members name next to their avatar for a long time or even forever then fine.
I have probably lost more loved ones than most people and if there is one thing I have learned from all these mostly untimely deaths and such mourning I have experienced is I can almost feel my deceased loved ones saying...Move on and enjoy life...
It is ok and healthy to mourn and you never forget a deceased person you know but you must eventually move on and that is why I am 100% objecting to having a forum here called OBITUARIES in it. We, especially those of us who have experienced deep mourning and loss, don't need to be reminded about it every time we visit the forum here or even a link to it posted by someone with good intentions.