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reply to mikepd

Re: Sad news

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K-K-K-Katy, beautiful Katy,
You're the only g-g-g-girl that I adore;
When the m-m-m-moon shines,
Over the c-c-c-cowshed,
I'll be waiting at the k-k-k-kitchen door.
K-K-K-Katy, beautiful Katy,
You're the only g-g-g-girl that I adore;
When the m-m-m-moon shines,
Over the c-c-c-cowshed,
I'll be waiting at the k-k-k-kitchen door.

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happy early birthday to you...try to celebrate the life and keep your spirits up.

reply to vue666

Happy Birthday!

Yoyo...that's cool!! Thanks for putting a smile on my face...

Actually 3D World, 3D Artist and ImagineFX are three of my favorite monthly mags...

here, i haven't pulled this out in a while...i figured you could use it.

Wow! Just, wow!

It was two months ago this Saturday evening/Sunday morning that Mom's tumour's ruptured and she went into the hospital. This Wednesday will be two months since she passed...

Friday night I had a dream that seemed so real. In my dream Mom was a live and in my dream I said to myself, "Mom's a live, I was only dreaming she died"...then she kissed me on my cheek.

I then awoke believing for a swift second she was alive, only to realize I had been dreaming, she is forever gone.

I lay in bed and wept for a good half hour and was filled with extreme sorrow for the whole day. I even teared up few times at the grocery store and at XS Cargo....

Mom's death is not easy for me...and by far the toughest thing I had to endure....

OMG, how I miss her... how very much....

Vue, grief is a process you will work through, with your mothers death and with your other issues. Think of the dream as a gift from your mother so that you could have at least some time of happiness during this rough time in your life.
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Vue, I've had similar dreams for both my dad and mom. In one of them, my mom walks into the kitchen for some normal activity like pooring herself a coffee, and I am thinking "should I tell her she is dead ? or don't tell her so as to not ruin her day and let her enjoy her coffee".

I've had a similar dream for my dad, but it is more fuzzy in my memory.

I had dozens of dreams since '94 that my Dad is still alive
and still have those dreams occasionally.

reply to vue666
While I miss my Dad, (4yrs this April) I don't really think about it, I'm not an overly emotional person.

What surprised everyone (and I'm glad) that my Mom is still around, 80yrs old and going strong. We all figured that once one of them died the other would follow shortly.

The ones that got burned by his death is his Grandkids, I see so much of him in them.
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No, I didn't. Honest... I ran out of gas. I... I had a flat tire. I didn't have enough money for cab fare. My tux didn't come back from the cleaners. An old friend came in from out of town. Someone stole my car. There was an earthquake.......

Two months ago today was Mom's funeral service and today I'm going to the funeral of my Aunt Marguerite...

It is 4 months ago today Mom passed AND how I still miss her. Dad is very sad today as well...

I haven't frequented this site in the past few months let alone post...

But I'm very sorry to hear about the passing of your Mom. I wish that I had some magic words for you but that's not one of my strong points.

Just know that I'm thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.

Your Mom sounds like a wonderful woman and if you don't mind me saying, particularly in the older photos of her, she looked like quite the dish!

Over time, it will be more bearable. And although it will always be painful, some of the pain will be displaced by a warm and fuzzy feeling when you think of her.

In the meantime, try to keep yourself and your Dad busy.

I'm sending all of the good Karma that I can possibly muster to you, your family and of course your Mom.

Take care my friend.

FE

Yes she was very beautiful. when she was 18 or so she worked at Moirs Chocolates and was seriously considered to be the chocolate box girl...

Today we got a phone call that Mom's grave marker had been placed. Dad & I journeyed to the grave site. It was a tearful experience to see your loved one's name engraved at a graveyard....

So that's who you got your good looks from!

reply to vue666
As much as my family and I are completely Disconnected, I do wish to express my deepest simpathies and condolences to you and your family. It's not easy to deal with the death of a parent but know the higher power is right there with you

Will Pray for you.
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