said by mix:
I doubt you would throw around the word rape so casually if someone you cared about has experienced this heinous crime.
I hope you realize that most words have multiple definitions, and the meaning can change based on context. The word 'rape' can be used in non-sexual ways (ie. plunder, despoil, take by force). I think most of us, including yourself, can figure out that what Rob said is not the same action as what you are implying, which I would assume to be forced sexual intercourse.