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Re: My wife and gaming I think its just best to wait and see how things are when I get off work in 2 hours. Play it by ear I guess. Haha, thanks though =D
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 ethicsPremium
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Does she have a black eye? Then you didn't tell her anything yet. Just kidding. |
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Oh I know. Tell her that you'll buy her Diablo 3 if she goes. That should do the trick. |
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join:2010-04-11
Ephrata, PA
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We can never win. Because our thought process is totally different. Girls think we're going to hang out, spend time together, have interest in each other. Guys think...WTFwe gotta do now? Girls think about the other person, guys think about the activity. Though this statement is not written in stone just from my experience. |
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If you plan 3 gaming events in a weekend, without discussing or involving her, it's obvious your priorities are for gaming and not her. That's what she's upset about, and it will require a lot of work to fix your marriage. |
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 bTU
join:2009-04-22
Aurora, CO | reply to Savious
said by Savious:I think its just best to wait and see how things are when I get off work in 2 hours. Play it by ear I guess. Haha, thanks though =D
If she tells you everything is fine and you can do your gaming stuff.... DON'T! IT'S A TRAP! And not in a small sort of painful mousetrap kinda way, more like a full on you just hyperspace jumped into a fully armed and operational battle station with the deflector shield still up kind of trap. She's testing you to see what you're really going to do and use it to evaluate future decisions. |
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 MikePremium,Mod
join:2000-09-17
Pittsburgh, PA | reply to Savious
She got what she wanted and made you feel like shit in the process.
Mission Accomplished? |
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I told her I was doing this 3 weeks ago =/
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AGHHH! Why not just be straight forward! WHHHHY
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join:2009-10-13
Columbus, NE
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This is probably the reason my ex-fiance and I split up two years back. I'm a patient and caring individual but I'm not going to get jerked around by a bunch of stupid bullshit either.
Say what you want and mean it. Don't say one thing but mean another.
When a guy says, "Sure honey, go out with your friends, have fun," he means "Go out with your friends, I genuinely hope you have fun."
When a girl says it, she really means "If you step out that door I'm going to fucking castrate you."
Now then, if you did "plan" all these events without consulting her, I can understand why she is pissed. The fact that she is being a typical woman about it however is just fucking dumb. That isn't a slight towards your wife, who I'm sure is lovely, but just women in general.
Say what you fucking want and quit being a ball of emotional fucking crazy.
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Ok, I weinered out and texted her and asked her if she wanted to watch a movie she has been talking about lately tonight.
No response as of yet.
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Yea, my wife is 24, so, maybe shell grow out of it?
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AdaliciaPoM Nom Nom 'Mon
join:2009-10-13
Columbus, NE
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AdaliciaPoM Nom Nom 'Mon
join:2009-10-13
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join:2010-04-11
Ephrata, PA
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A woman's yes never means yes. |
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 Jay_Formerly known as CarnagePremium
join:2001-05-15
Pickering On
kudos:2 | reply to Savious
said by Savious:The future is bleak.
LOL! Truer words have never been spoken.
You need to marry a cool chick like Adalicia. She'll never give you heck because she games a lot. (yep, Im not letting this Adalicia is a chick thing die without a fight)
On a serious note. I hope you've prepared yourself for the very strong (read 99.99%) possibility that you are indeed NOT going to ANY pre-planned gaming activities this weekend... or any other weekend anytime soon for that matter.
My ex-gf's hate for games alone was a strong part of helping me quit WoW... haha
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AdaliciaPoM Nom Nom 'Mon
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| said by Jay_:My ex-gf's hate for games alone was a strong part of helping me quit WoW... haha
What was the strong part that helped you quit her?
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Pickering On
kudos:2 | Being a controlling manipulative bitch? I was blinded for a while.. I'll admit it. I was blinded by boobs and ass....
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