Probably not a valid comparison since I'm in Oklahoma, but I get:
And on Cox's website I get:
Mon May 21 4:29 PM
Yes
33 Mbps
8 Mbps
21 millisec
(my IP)
Oklahoma City
This is with the Arris EMTA modem.. still Docsis 2.0.
I'd start doing Tracert's to various places.. it could be on Cox's local Gateway (node slowly getting over-loaded?) or some router/hop between you and the server. The problem spot is usually the one where the ping time jumps up and that time is carried over to the destination.