said by camaroz:Depending on your OS, this could even be due to something like "Max Half-Open Connections". If you exceeded the default limit in previous versions of windows, it would cause all kinds of problems. Might want to look into it. Also try disabling DHT, and see if that helps.
thank you that has all ready been disabled on the OS
has unlimited half open.. and has been
10 as the max does not solve anything
10 x factor there for the limit on the OS is stupid in general.