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urbanriot
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Re: [Serious] Statists, be proud! re: Ashley Smith

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People will go on and on and on about a girl who offs themselves after some melodramatic video on Youtube because they can't turn off Facebook, but god forbid we give a damn when a girl that same age has the same thing happen by the people who are supposed to help her. The system failed for Ashley, and the way she was allowed to be treated is nothing short of criminal.

So this thread is concerning a woman that was tortured by our government? There's no information in this thread other than snippets of something that sounds like it comes from a horror movie concerning actions committed against an innocent woman?

However I see the word 'inmate' in the quotes above...

Does anyone care to add some context to this story for those of us that have no idea who this Ashley girl is?


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If you know nothing about the situation or who this Ashley Girl is, urbanruot, here's a tip: »lmgtfy.com/?q=Ashley+Smith

I would argue that considering the mental health issues this woman had and the fact that she was put into a system she should have never been put into and that same system is woefully inadequate to handle those issues, the way she was treated was torture that ultimately lead to her death. Completely inexcusable. She deserved better, and I have been heartbroken by this entire story from the very beginning.



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said by Gone:

If you know nothing about the situation or who this Ashley Girl is, urbanruot, here's a tip: »lmgtfy.com/?q=Ashley+Smith

Oh, okay, so you can't actually relay a summary of the issue, only engage in what seems to be a gross exaggeration of something that bothers you.

You could have just said that.

Based on the presentation of the issue, I'm going to have to side with the cool headed DKS on this one.


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said by urbanriot:

Oh, okay, so you can't actually relay a summary of the issue, only engage in what seems to be a gross exaggeration of something that bothers you.

My response is purely emotional. It is not my job to relay summaries of an issues you have no knowledge of. That's your own job to figure out. I owe you nothing.

Are you trying to tell us that you are not outraged with the context of these videos and the apparent way that this young woman was mistreated? DKS was quite blunt with his description of the piss-poor "system" we have when it comes to caring for people with mental health issues in this country. He may be cool-headed, but he is most certainly not condoning it.

I do not hide the fact that I feel these people are bastards and that everyone from the top to the bottom should be held accountable for this woman's death. I am not the only one here who feels this way, to which the "social barometer" that you also so firmly hold to seems to pointing in the same direction. To quote Rosie DiManno over at the Star, "After watching videotapes of Ashley Smith, suicide feels entirely a sane option."


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said by Gone:

My response is purely emotional. It is not my job to relay summaries of an issues you have no knowledge of. That's your own job to figure out. I owe you nothing.

Well I get that you're emotional about every thread but it's becoming tiresome and disruptive. I hadn't asked you for anything, I'd asked the person that created the thread, so you don't need to add to every thread that you don't owe me anything because I'm not asking for anything from you.

Again, I'd asked the thread creator for some information concerning the woman this thread concerns as it wasn't provided and the link doesn't provide it either.

said by Gone:

Are you trying to tell us that you are not outraged with the context of these videos and the apparent way that this young woman was mistreated?

Context is everything and this outrage has no context.

You compared this woman's suicide with the suicide of a young girl that was bullied, yet the quotes above suggest this woman is an inmate who will be injected with anti-psychotic drugs.

The bolded words illustrate how I can't immediately agree with such a comparison, as this woman was guilty of something... psychotic? Did she murder a family? Murder children?

If she's guilty of a heinous act, it most certainly affects where this lands on my care meter. If she's an innocent person then I'd obviously care more.

In summary, innocence is contextual to how I feel about this woman's treatment and as far as I'm concerned, all criminals are not equal. (I'm sure DKS and I do not agree on that topic)


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said by urbanriot:

Well I get that you're emotional about every thread but it's becoming tiresome and disruptive.

To which, as I've said in the past, what you think is something that I genuinely have no concern or worry for. Your opinion is not something I am at all concerned about.


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said by Gone:

said by urbanriot:

Well I get that you're emotional about every thread but it's becoming tiresome and disruptive.

To which, as I've said in the past, what you think is something that I genuinely have no concern or worry for. Your opinion is not something I am at all concerned about.

... then why do you go out of your way to respond? You clearly have some kind of agitation, concern or worry, otherwise you'd have simply ignored my post.

Heck, most recently you ignored everything I wrote concerning the topic and specifically focused on... you. Maybe that's the problem here.


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said by urbanriot:

If she's guilty of a heinous act, it most certainly affects where this lands on my care meter. If she's an innocent person then I'd obviously care more.

Here, this ought to paint a clearer portrait:

Smith was first charged with a criminal offence in March 2002, when she was 14 years old. In the following year, she faced charges of causing a public disturbance, trespassing and assault, according to a report from the New Brunswick Office of the Ombudsman & Child and Youth Advocate.

Smith was first incarcerated at the age of 15 after an incident where she threw crab apples at a postal worker. She was convicted of multiple charges of breach of probation, common assault, trespassing and causing a disturbance.

She racked up six years worth of additional time behind bars for infractions while in youth custody — so many that she eventually ended up serving time in the federal adult prison system.

So no, she isn't an axe murderer nor an angel sent from heaven...
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said by urbanriot:

said by Gone:

said by urbanriot:

Well I get that you're emotional about every thread but it's becoming tiresome and disruptive.

To which, as I've said in the past, what you think is something that I genuinely have no concern or worry for. Your opinion is not something I am at all concerned about.

... then why do you go out of your way to respond? You clearly have some kind of agitation, concern or worry, otherwise you'd have simply ignored my post.

Heck, most recently you ignored everything I wrote concerning the topic and specifically focused on... you. Maybe that's the problem here.

Obviously Gone See Profile's feelings on this subject have personal connections and are charged with some emotion. Not always can we look at all situations with complete irreverence; sometimes it hits close to home, the words don't come out just right, and it's just not the time to turn it into personal attackfest. Pay the kindness forward; you might be surprised what happens.

said by urbanriot:

You compared this woman's suicide with the suicide of a young girl that was bullied, yet the quotes above suggest this woman is an inmate who will be injected with anti-psychotic drugs.

The bolded words illustrate how I can't immediately agree with such a comparison, as this woman was guilty of something... psychotic? Did she murder a family? Murder children?

If she's guilty of a heinous act, it most certainly affects where this lands on my care meter. If she's an innocent person then I'd obviously care more.

In summary, innocence is contextual to how I feel about this woman's treatment and as far as I'm concerned, all criminals are not equal. (I'm sure DKS and I do not agree on that topic)

Amanda Todd's death was a tragedy, just like Ashley Smith's. A person does not need to be treated like that while in custody. One can clearly see she was restrained beyond what is necessary and treated inhumanely.

She didn't murder a family. She threw crabapples at a mailman and trespassed. Most of her problems were from her being locked up in adult jail since 2006, where she routinely tried to injure herself and others. She had an array of personality disorders.

Do you believe that you are born good or evil, urbanriot See Profile?


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She threw crabapples at a mailman and trespassed.

LOL who hasn't done worse as a kid? I've done 10x worse than that. Multi-times.

The whole reason she was locked up is pathetic.

Funny how even the doctors involved in Ontario are fighting this inquiry into their role in all this.


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Causing a public disturbance, throwing apples, trespassing, hell a lot of kids in North America could be accused of this at some point in their life...

Probably not well behaved or ideal behaviour but hardly a criminal...

She was a very sick young lady who deserved medical attention. She fell through the cracks. If anyone is guilty it is us. To move onward on this situation, we must first look inward at ourselves as a society and ask what is our goal, what is our aim for our society to evolve, to become better... Putting sick people who have committed no real crimes other then juvenile pranks into our prison system is not in our best interests...

Sorry I have NO time for real criminals (you all know that and my soap box stands on crime) but Ashley was not a criminal... For her I have nothing but compassion and a sense of failure.

Our goal should be to look after the meek, the infirm, the elder and not toss them aside.. We tossed Ashley aside and put her into the junk heap when all she needed was some loving care...



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said by IsItDoneYet:

So no, she isn't an axe murderer nor an angel sent from heaven...

So, is it your contention that someone other than an angel sent from heaven should be exposed to the kind of inhumane treatment that Ashley Smith received?


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said by I laffed :

said by Last Parade:

She threw crabapples at a mailman and trespassed.

LOL who hasn't done worse as a kid? I've done 10x worse than that. Multi-times.

The whole reason she was locked up is pathetic.

Funny how even the doctors involved in Ontario are fighting this inquiry into their role in all this.

Can we really blame the guard as I doubt they receive training in how to cope with people like Ashley. Prison guards should be contending with criminals and not people like Ashley. She belonged in an hospital.


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said by vue666:

said by I laffed :

said by Last Parade:

She threw crabapples at a mailman and trespassed.

LOL who hasn't done worse as a kid? I've done 10x worse than that. Multi-times.

The whole reason she was locked up is pathetic.

Funny how even the doctors involved in Ontario are fighting this inquiry into their role in all this.

Can we really blame the guard as I doubt they receive training in how to cope with people like Ashley. Prison guards should be contending with criminals and not people like Ashley. She belonged in an hospital.

What if you could trace the behaviour of a 'criminal' (as you say) back to their upbringing? Are they still as guilty?


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said by vue666:

Can we really blame the guard as I doubt they receive training in how to cope with people like Ashley. Prison guards should be contending with criminals and not people like Ashley. She belonged in an hospital.

While I see where you're going with this, at the same time I also think that basic human decency should prevent anyone - including prison guards - from allowing a young woman to sit in her own shit on a plane despite that woman *begging* to use the washroom.

Or, worse yet, for an entire group of them to stand by and do nothing while she kills herself. This should throw up a *lot* of red flags on this whole situation in of itself.

I am of the belief that they should be held just as accountable for their actions in this situation as anyone else involved. For what it's worth, there were people involved in her case who desperately tried to sort things out, but were either prevented or simply were incapable of doing so. The ones who could do something but didn't? Throw them to the wolves.


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said by Last Parade:

What if you could trace the behaviour of a 'criminal' (as you say) back to their upbringing? Are they still as guilty?

That's a very complex question. I suspect each situation would be unique onto themselves and would have to be judged individually. What was the crime (murder, rape, shop lifting, car jacking, etc), how much control did they have over their plight, what where their options, etc...

That said I think the nature of this topic deserves our respect and let's not hijack into something else... Sorry not accusing you or implying that was your intent but it can happen quite innocently...


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said by Gone:

While I see where you're going with this, at the same time I also think that basic human decency should prevent anyone - including prison guards - from allowing a young woman to sit in her own shit on a plane despite that woman *begging* to use the washroom.

I can not argue with that. Great point...on the human decency...

I hope something good comes of this very bad incident and future incidents like this are minimized or hopefully never happen again...


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said by vue666:

I hope something good comes of this very bad incident and future incidents like this are minimized or hopefully never happen again...

For once vue, we are in complete and total agreement.


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said by Gone:

said by IsItDoneYet:

So no, she isn't an axe murderer nor an angel sent from heaven...

So, is it your contention that someone other than an angel sent from heaven should be exposed to the kind of inhumane treatment that Ashley Smith received?

NO ONE should be treated like that by the State, not Ghandi not Hitler.

This is a wake up call for those who believe due process is good enough, everything done to her happened after due process was applied...due process is not enough when agents of the State shelve their humanity for the sake of a paycheck.

She needed a human being with authority to care beyond the abstract of a dr./client, guard/prisoner paradigm and had she found that saviour she would still be living.

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said by Gone:

said by vue666:

I hope something good comes of this very bad incident and future incidents like this are minimized or hopefully never happen again...

For once vue, we are in complete and total agreement.

I think we've been in agreement before. ie: gun control..

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