OK, I've got relays ordered, now I need to know what kind of connector this is so I can get the alarm pin (next to the orange wire of the middle connector) out... Anyone have any idea on what kind of terminal I need to shove in there/
Tom is right, they're .156 Molex pins. I added them to my mouser order. (Jeff had a few bags on the truck, so I just copied down the part # and looked it up.)