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David
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Re: This Completely Misses The Point!

said by technick See Profile:

Not all sex offenders are really sex offenders like the goverment makes them out to be. When I was 17, I had a girlfriend who was 15. We slept together, and I was tried for Statutory Rape when her parents found out, even though we were both minors. Does that make me a sexual offender? No, but if I would of been convicted, then I would have to register with this offenders list where ever I move.

Now that I look back at it, I am glad that everything happened the way it did. After the DA couldn't put a good enough case together besides her diary, without her testimony, they dropped the case. Her father then took out a repeat violence restraining (I had never harmed a hair on her, but when you pay someone enough money in the goverment you can make anything possible on the restraining order) order on me keeping me from her. She moved down with her biological mother almost three hours away. It didn't stop me from seeing her.

After awhile we broke it off because of the distance, and she told me that when she is 18 she would enull the order. Well longer story short, she did it and we are together today, and I get to sit across from her father at the dinner table on Holidays. He still hates my guts but he "Accepts" me I guess. I still hate his guts for what he put me through, but I try to pretend I like him.
You my friend.... are a better man than I would be.

After that, I would just tell the wife/significant other "Ya know what why do I want to see him again??"

I think I could actually tolerate that ending.... although I would think less of him though... which is more than well in your right. I can only imagine the immense a$$ he probably feels sometimes, especially if you are good to the daughter.

I was in about the same type of situation, no legal implications though with my very first girlfriend. It was a new thing for me I was 16 (barely by like 3 months) and she just turned 15. We had good times but her dad would never hear of it. I broke it off due to the pressure we were getting from her parents.

Now a days, he is my dad's boss, and my dad is 2nd in charge below him. He has watched my successes, and watched me get a lot thinner. She ended up approx. 4 years later getting together with a guy he really wished she would not have. Had 2 kids with him, and left her alone, and single with 2 kids (never married). Her dad, for the most part we get along very well. I asked my dad one day "Do you think it ever crossed his mind as to what would have happend to his daughter had he just let it go??" My dad states "I am sure it crosses his mind many times, I am sure he regrets it too." From what I understood she was going for a computer science degree but fell short when the kids were born. Makes me wonder if I ever could read minds for 1 day I would take a day off and see what he thought... Call it my curiosity....
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im shit outta luck. me and my girl have been dating for 5 months now. i turn 18 in february, and she is 16 now. irony of it all, her mother still doesnt know about it.


David
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said by UnKown See Profile:

im shit outta luck. me and my girl have been dating for 5 months now. i turn 18 in february, and she is 16 now. irony of it all, her mother still doesnt know about it.
Well... pray they don't... or hope they are more supportive than the 2 examples (me and technick)
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