Wednesday July 9th
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No HE-MALE, SHEMALE or SHIM's Allowed!
JULY 2008
Yes, their needs to be a legal definition of MAN and WOMAN.
'Pregnant man' gives birth to daughter"
»www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25519830/
I really believe that when you decide to become a "Man" or a "Woman" through an sex change operation.. you should be required to stay that way.
It's not like a name change.. If you are going to go there.. you need to go ALL the way.
Case in point.
A WOMAN becomes a MAN and then decides to have a child, AS A MAN. And she is legally a MAN???
Um.. legally need to NOT be a man. Is she the FATHER and the MOTHER on the birth Certificate.. someone explain that crap.
Anyhow, I think after this that there needs to be a law that once you go through a sex change operation, you can keep the ovaries but you have to have the stuff removed that would allow you to actually carry and birth the seminated egg.
I can see where someone may say that they want to keep their eggs. Fine, keep them and you can get a surrogate.
I am an open minded person, however, if you are going to become a man, you give up the opportunity to call yourself a MOTHER. You can be a Father.
See, Motherhood is a priveledge that woman get. (it may be a curse, too).
If you don't see yourself as a woman.. enough that you become a legally declared man, then you shouldn't be able to do female things, like carry a child or use a womans bathroom.
I know that in some species the male will carry the eggs once the female has laid them.. but they are not connected via an embelical cord. No..that is female. No SHEMALE or SHIM's Allowed!
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MSNBC contributors
updated 2:40 p.m. CT, Thurs., July. 3, 2008
Thomas Beatie, the transgendered man who rose to national attention when he became pregnant, gave birth June 29 to a girl, People magazine and ABC News reported. He and his daughter are doing well, he told People.
Beatie grew up in Hawaii as a girl but later legally changed to a male identity, took hormone shots and had his breasts surgically removed, but kept his female reproductive organs.
A spokesperson from St. Charles Medical Center in Bend, Ore., where Beatie reportedly gave birth said she could "neither confirm nor deny the presence of that patient at our facility."
Beatie told People that despite published reports, the baby was not born via Caesarean section, but did not give any other information about the birth.
His wife Nancy, 46, was unable to bear children since she'd had a hysterectomy. Beatie became pregnant using donor sperm and artificial insemination.
“I opted not to do anything with my reproductive organs because I wanted to have a child one day,” he told Oprah Winfrey during an April interview. Nancy said she inseminated him with a syringe using sperm purchased from a bank.
The couple live in Bend, Ore., and Nancy has two adult children.
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Pregnant man tells Oprah: 'It's a miracle'
Nancy told Winfrey the couple's roles will not change after the baby is born. “He’s going to be the father and I’m going to be the mother,” she said. Their marriage is legal and he is recognized under state law as a man.
The couple runs a small business in Bend and has some savings, Nancy said. In addition, Beatie is working on a book about his childhood, his mother’s suicide and his life growing in Hawaii where, as a girl, he was a teen beauty pageant contestant and earned a martial arts black belt.
BEFORE becoming SHIM:
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PREGNANT as SHIM
Tell me how this looks anything beautiful like a pregnant female?
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posted Wednesday July 9th, @01:49AM
Wednesday April 18th
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tales from the dating scene
So, here was my experience in the dating scene
Dude# 1 from Millbrook, AL:
Met him on Cupid.com
We talked for about 1 month.
He was weird. Divorced 2 or 3 times. He was a little to hyper. I saw him once. He had an issue with his own height. I am 5'4... He thought that was just to tall for him.
Dude #2 from B'ham AL:
met him on Cupid.com
He was a behavioral analyst. He would observe my behaviors and try to make me feel insecure about the fact that he was doing it. I didn't have anything to hide. Anyhow, he was a Iraqi and he personally did not have the respect for a woman that I needed. He didn't open the door for me and YES that is very important to me.
Their were other things. He had a weird relationship with his neighbor lady/ coworker.
I spent a good bit of time in his company. One night I spent the night (no sex) and I took a shower at his place. I FOUND A FEMALE's razor blade there (VENUS).. Yeah... he had a WEIRD story. Can I say CAUGHT!
Dude #3 from Pelham, Al
Met on Match.com
This guy would be a GREAT friend. We had actually been phone friends for about 1 year before we met.
He had a weird way of kissing. Kind of like kissing an O that was tight lipped.
Anyhow. He had a wierd way of saying "Tickle tickle" when we were cuddling/ intimate. Reminded me of a sexual preditor and an 8 year old.
David and I eventually went back together and then we broke up 6 months later. Same issues.
We were apart for 2 months while I went on a dating frenzy again.
Dated a few of the above plus:
Dude#1 --he was from Aruba. Hot man... very hot.
knew how to treat a woman... He had great taste in fine dining.
I regret not getting naked with him... still wonder how that would have been... He was a semi pro wrestler and a Chiropractor. Great ass+ great massager....YUMMY!
Anyhow.. he talk about smoking weed one day and that was the last I spoke to him. I am just not into drugs or anyone that is into drugs.
Dude#2- Checked out the Pelham Man again.. he did tickle tickle and them I remembered why I stopped seeing him in the first place.
Anyhow... me a few other guys at the bar and now I know where to go if I ever need a one night stand... at that time I didn't.
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Eventually, David realizes that I am going to date and see others. He really came around and started taking me seriously.
He really worked on learning how to communicate.. listen and respond when I have needs and to accept what I am saying. In return, I am much more happier. We have problems but they do not blow up into an argument that is as hurtful. He let's me know he still cares. He lets me know if there is something I am doing wrong.
The breaking up helped me to value David more.
He is wonderful because he personally is not drama.
I had felt in the past that he didn't care about me but he has learned to communicate better and actually is great at letting me know that he doesn't want to end the relationship.. that he appreciates me.
End all be all... David is my man.
We still have 1 issue to work on.. and we are working on it. |
posted Wednesday April 18th, @02:39AM
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A new chapter
(note- posted this initially in the wrong spot)
A New Chapter
I realized today that my Son, Lloyd, and I are entering a new chapter in our lives.
We are in a war against drugs.
He is 13. At this point I can confirm through voluntary school administered drug tests that he is drug free of "testable" drugs.
My objective for the next 7 years is to get my son through life wirh out him using drugs.
I read the following mother's tribute to her son and I realized how easy it can happen to the best of children.
»brian-deangelis.virtual-memorial···age_no=1
I sent my son to live with his Father for the school year and he will return June 13th.
I missed him so much.
Drugs and Alchohol really scare me.
I made it through ok and I hope he can to with out the use of drugs or Alchohol.
I had a lot to deal with. I guess when I think about it, I was a great candidate for drug/alchohol abuse. I was living on my own at 15. Going to highschool, having a boyfried (Lloyd's father) and most imporantly, I had plenty of friends who regularly did drugs around me.
I never used drugs though.
I was afraid I would get addicted. Afraid I would die. Afraid I would end up stupid.
So maybe I need to talk to my son when he comes home about drugs and find out what he thinks. Ask him for reasons why he would or wouldn't do drugs. Ask for examples of what he would do in situations where he had access or pressure to do drugs.
I am going to pray that God will grant me the knowledge and stregnth and compassion to succeed in supporting my son through the next 7 difficult years. |
posted Wednesday April 18th, @02:11AM
Monday November 27th
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posted Monday November 27th, @01:38AM
Sunday September 10th
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posted Sunday September 10th, @01:36AM
Wednesday August 9th
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Tales from the Dating scene
I so have to post some of my recent escapades.
Here are some recent pictures. |
posted Wednesday August 9th, @01:41AM
Saturday March 4th
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I met someone new
David and I had called it quits. No hard feelings and we will still remain very good friends.
Anyhow,
I join a website dating service to look for people. With in a day I have tons of messages.
I don't respond to any.
One of the members continues to message me. I finally respond.
Anyhow, He is the only one I am talking to and so far he seems to be legit.
I am not picky about looks. Attraction grows as you get to know each other.
He lives in Millbrook, AL.. about 70 miles away.
I have never had a long distance relationship.
Guess I will find out what it is like. |
posted Saturday March 4th, @09:02PM
Sunday January 29th
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posted Sunday January 29th, @08:16PM
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My perfect oven
I was just thinking today about my PERFECT Frigerator and I stumble upon my DREAM Oven.
It COOLS! IT HEATS! IT connects to the Internet! You can control it remotely!
IT IS
$8,700!!
»www.tmio.com/products/ |
posted Sunday January 29th, @08:07PM
Monday November 7th
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He Cracked
More updates:
David came over with in 24 hours to apologize. He was understanding that I was hesitant to resume our relationship. I showed him my online profile (394 emails in less than 24 hours). He was gracious enough to accept my decision.
We both agreed to remain friends. We did very well at this.
I was on the verge of getting ready to go out with another guy when he realized that he would be friends with another man's girfriend. "It wouldn't be the same.. everything would change", he said.
Anyhow, he cracked and told me he didn't want to loose me. He told me that he knew he had some changes to make and he was willing to show me that he could change them.
I had 2 options. I could date the guy that I had been talking to or take back the one I new that I loved for the person he was.
I am a sucker. I took David back.
I truely doubt David will ever speak to me in such a manner again.
I think this all happened for a bigger purpose. David needed to realize his feelings for me.
He tells me he loves me. He even says it back if I said it.
He gave me the best compliment the other night.
"You are beautiful when you are naked. Clothes do not do you justice".
He went on to state that when most women undress, stuff falls out, the illusion of curves is just that..
I told him it was the most touching compliment I have ever heard. I understood that he was just admiring.
David is just so simple when he says something.. there are no hidden messages.
Anyhow.. I learned a lesson too.
I don't want 394 guys or even 2. I just want David and he wants me. We don't need to complicate it.
It's just that simple. |
posted Monday November 7th, @11:11PM
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A few pics of me
Here they are |
posted Monday November 7th, @10:54PM
Monday October 24th
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Online dating
Well, the David thing didn't pan out. I figured I would make a step 13.. get out and date and you will forget about him.
David really hurt me.
Last night, I was tossing a corn chip at him in jest and he said something that absolutely shocked me....
"You stupid B*tch! You almost poked out my eye!"
I have not spoken to him since. He has never spoken in such a fashion to me. This, however, was so disrespectable. More than I can tollerate.
I am done.
Anyhow, here are some of the pictures I am posting online.. In hopes of finding someone who can appreciate my warmth and generosity. |
posted Monday October 24th, @10:59PM
Monday August 29th
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step one: no progress yet.. still thinking
I am still pondering what STEP 1 means.
However, here is a tidbit for my journal.
David had wanted to spend Saturday w/ his cousin. I tried not to be hurt but I was. I told him I understood but it still stung.
Turns out his plans backfired and his cousin didn't want to go anywhere so unfortunately.. he stayed home.
He was NOT happy to admit this to me.
I told him I was sorry to hear about this (secretly thinking "maybe you now could appreciate my time!")
So we had planned earlier in the week to go to BUG fest (VW car show) @ Tannehill state park.
We went Sunday. He had sounded a little bit ticked when I had told him I might be busy. It was wrong of me to jerk his chain.. I know.
Anyhow, We had a lovely time. We toured the state park afterwards (can I say AMAZING)!
»www.tannehill.org/ |
posted Monday August 29th, @02:47AM
Sunday August 28th
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12 steps: Recovering from Relationship Attachement
The Twelve Steps of Recovering from Relationship Attachement are as follows.
1. Admit that I am now powerless over the relationship success — that my life has had become unmanageable in regards to this relationship.
2. Come to believe that a Power greater than myself could restore me to sanity.
3. Make a decision to turn my will and my life over to the care of God as I understood Him.
4. Make a searching and fearless moral inventory of myself.
5. Admitted to God, to myself and to another human being the exact nature of my wrongs.
6. I am entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
7. Humbly asked Him to remove my shortcomings.
8. Make a list of all persons I have harmed, and become willing to make amends to them all.
9. Make direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
10. Continue to take personal inventory and when I was wrong promptly admitted it.
11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve my conscious contact with God, as I understand Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for me and the power to carry that out.
12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, I try to carry this message to Relationship Attachment , and to practice these principles in all my affairs.
I will ponder for a few days long and hard on step one. I will post my responses to the first action item along with my results. |
posted Sunday August 28th, @03:44AM
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The love life
I don't WANT to write this but I will.
I don't know what to do about David anymore.
We are in that stage where guys start to pull apart and want space.. It hurts like hell to the girl.
He treats me excellent. I cannot point fault at that. I just don't feel like he values me.
I know I am being a girl. I hate it.
We recently spent a week in Washington state visiting my family (lil bro got married!).
David has never been outside the "backyard" of the south so to speak. Never flown. Never ate Chineese. Never seen a real mountain. Never drove on the beach.
We conquered all of those Nevers in 1 week.
Went to Seattle (space needle, pike place market)
Went to Ocean shores,Wa (saw the ocean, drove on the beach, picked up fresh, live, Dungeness crab to eat later,)
Went to MT. Saint Helens (AKA Volcano tha tblew her top 25 years ago in May.) Side note to anyone living/ visiting Washington State.. GO THERE!!! Visit Johnston ridge, 2 hours SO of Seattle. PERFECT view of the crater side the blew. AMAZING visitor center!
So we come back and I realize that he wants space.. understandable. It's just that thinking back for the past 4 months.. it seems like he hasn't been as interested as he used to be.
I don't believe he is cheating.
Then again, I don't really know.
I don't know if I should just bag it and start seeing someone else or just be patient. I believe that the past 4 months tell me he is not going to come around and realize me.
There are people in this world who do not value the person who you are. You just have to move on. Find someone who will care about you.
The mistake that people make is hanging on, waiting for things to be right. Just happy to get a portion of what they could be getting. I am not that way. Never have been.
I think I just figured out the direction I need to take.. I just need help getting rid of the "addiction".
Maybe I should treat it like an addiction.
Maybe I should create a 12 step program to rid myself of David.
Hmm.. that might work.
OK.. so I do a google search.
FIRST site that comes up is:
»en.wikipedia.org/wiki/12-step_program
One of the first things that catch my eye is:
"Hi, I'm David, and I'm an alcoholic"
This is MORE than a coinscidence. This is a message that I am heading in the right direction towards "Recovering from Relationship attachment" or healing a broken heart. |
posted Sunday August 28th, @03:24AM
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One day in Band Camp.....
My 11 year old son, Lloyd, began Jr. High this year.
He is taking Band. He plays the percussions (snare drums and xylaphone)
Anyhow, I busted out the permanent marker and I wrote the name of the notes on the bars of the xylaphone.
I tried it out and patted myself on the back..
Figured he was going to be the best ever. I labeled the FACE bars (drew a pic of where the bar fell on the line music).. the "line notes" I just labeled the letter on the bar...
I was proud of my hard work and creativity.
However, I labled the bars wrong (one off).
So, I began to try all sorts of household products to remove the permanent marker.
Witch Hazel, detergent soap, water,
Folks, ALCOHOL REMOVES PERMANENT MARKER FROM METAL OBJECTS.
So I started over and relabeled everything again. I told my son that as he becomes for familliar w/the bars and can read music, we will Wipe the letters and labels from the bars one by one.
I am sure his band teacher will FLIP out cause I basically just made a cheater labels on the instrument.
I will have to take pics of the creative solution and send post them here. |
posted Sunday August 28th, @03:15AM
Wednesday February 23rd
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pictures from V-Day
here are some of the pics |
posted Wednesday February 23rd, @11:42PM
Monday February 21st
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Valentines day
David and I celebrated Valentines day Saturday, 2/19.
David hates to dress up.. He is your blue jeans and T-shirt, ford pick up, drivin kinda guy.
Well, this past Saturday he wore Kacky slacks, brown loafers, a belt, and a button up shirt that was collarless (and tie less.)
He looked adorable.
I wore an evening gown (satin) that had that shimmered blue when it moved. We got pictures taken. I will have to post them. WE went to Bahama breeze. We had this fabulous garlic butter fried ship appetizer. I had a steak and he had Seafood Paella.
We went to the Comedy club and saw Tammy Pescatelli.
We went to his mother's home after that so she could take pictures.
Some highlights from the evening:
While getting ready I put my dress on backwards. I looked in the mirror and my boobs looked kinda funny. I look down and see my tag hanging between the girls. Took me 10 min to get in the dress cause the zipper wants to stick in one spot.. I was so frustrated that I yelled out at myself as I was trying to get out of the dress. David came down my hallway, asking who I was talking to. Apparently he had been sitting in my living room, quietly, waiting for me for the last 20 minutes. I felt real dumb that I was not ready in time. I didn't even know he had arrived.
David had strep throat so we couldn't kiss. NO KISSES FOR 10 days. That REALLY bites!
He has had this before so he has to swap out his toothbrush. He hasn't since the last time he got it.
David had gotten me a silver necklace with a heart pendent. Has diamonds encrusted in it. So beautiful!
Anyhow, I know my details are brief cause I am tired. We have been dating for 7 months and I just ADORE him still.
His friends all like me and many make repeated jokes about "Whenever you need to David, I'll take you ring shopping".
David always includes me when he goes to his friends homes. "We" or "Us" are words he uses frequently when referring to us. Not "Red & I" . He says, "We will have to come out with you and so and so this weekend".
That is a good sign that we are a couple in his mind.
So all in all, I hope things work out cause he is a SUPER guy still!
~ReD |
posted Monday February 21st, @02:21AM
Tuesday November 2nd
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Can we just DONATE Florida
to a good cause and call it a write off?
"Carlson: Give Florida away
Posted: 10:02 p.m.
From Tucker Carlson, CNN's "Crossfire"
I'm unimpressed with Florida's ability to count its absentee ballots. The state had four years to prepare and couldn't count the ballots before Thursday. I think we should give Florida to Puerto Rico"
Ok.. who didn't see this coming.. wasn't Florida the laugh last time around? |
posted Tuesday November 2nd, @11:43PM
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