HOWEVER.... This produced bad results. Out of order packets no doubt..
802.3ad did not work. This is what you would want and its obviously not enabled.
Well im ready when that day comes

Most likely many moons from now.. BUT MAYBE its a MSO enabled option ? And maybe Cox might turn it on and have the option avaliable from the modem menu ?
I admit it serves ZERO function right now. Until speeds higher then 1Gbps are offered it does not matter. I just like the bad ass look of having the modem connected with 2 cables to the router

and having the router bond the ports.

So Balanced RR does work. It runs half the packets thru each interface, I can see it do it. BUT. A speed test shows weird results. Rather then my normal 330/33 I got mostly 200/33.. So dont try this at home.