If D-Link did have a issue like the Netgear routers, it would be totally transparent to the user. Only the receiving end would see it, both in slowness, and in a nice bandwidth bill.
Most users don't hook in their routers and sniff their connections to take apart whats happening at connection time with their routers. They just snap and go. Which is basically what these routers are mostly made for.
I believe that it would be possible for the recepients to make complaints, but in this case, A LOT of these modems were sold, and went off the production line with buggy firmware.
It would be just too much of a hassle and pushy thing to go around notifying everybody. Thats why Netgear made the public announcement with UofW.
So if you accidently DoSed somebody, it probably won't be your fault.

It'll be the programmer who was stealing 10-cans of sodas from the soda machine each day and getting code from his psychiatrist.

(joke intended)
Anyway, this is how most makers will make announcements, by distributing them out to websites as news, and through press releases.